We cried for silly fights when we were Kids. People say crying is the symbol of weakness and crying is a shame. But crying is the sign that we project to this world that we are alive.
When we were kids, we cried when our teacher scolded, when our parents wont buy a chocolate or our favorite dish, when our grand parents wont allow us to watch cartoon, when our sibling got more share of anything than us, when we don't find our mom next to us when we woke up. We really cried a lot when we were kids, but now we laugh at every single memory of our cry.
The next part is from the age 7-13.
We cry for our own reasons at this age. That is cute sometimes though. We would cry when our friend got a new pencil box and we don't. We would cry if we get very lesser gift for our birthdays. If we don't get to go a weekend trip or movie as planed. We would weep when our friends bully us or when we get low marks in a test or when our teacher punishes our friends. Many more reasons, when we don't get first in a competition. Few things remains in our mind for ever, few get pass by, few give us a scar. But this is when the famous quote "Boys must not cry, If you cry you will be considered as a girl".
Teenage Weepings :-)
This weeping episode will be the actual content that would change our life forever.
When our first crush wont even know us
When our first freedom was not used properly
When our first group of friends get split
When our first break up kills us every single day
When our first college dont serve the purpose
When our first love ends and we must act as if nothing happened.
The list goes on and on and on.
How many times we would have typed "I Am Ok" While we are weeping.
This is the time we would say " I am fed up of crying, I am gonna let go of the thing".
This is the time we realize that crying in the shower is more comfortable than anything else.
This is the time we shape ourselves, we never open up for persons coz, the first person whom we let is would just cut our hearts into pieces and dont even know what actually happened.
The worst type of crying is the silent one.The one when everyone else is asleep.The one you feel in your throat, and your eyes become blurry from the tears. The one where you just want to scream. The one where you have to hold your breath and grab your stomach to keep quiet. The one where you cant breathe anymore. The one when you realize the person that meant most to you, is gone. Forever!
No matter whatever happens, hold your head high and walk away. There is no use in crying. God will send a friend who will be our shoulder to lean on, just hold on for some more time. Sometimes, we must cry out for no reason. Tears are the summer showers for our soul. Lean on, cry, walk away and hold your head high.
Sorry folks, I feel a little down these few days. This is the first sad post in our masla dosa. Lets just understand that we must trust ourselves that we are alive for a reason, no matter what our we go through let us just not give up!
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ReplyDeleteNice one da.... But don't always feel down
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